Don't Give Up – It's Not Over

July 25th, 2017

Wealth is often the word people think of when they imagine someone having it all: financial wealth and material possessions galore. But these things are impermanent. The price one pays for glorifying these sorts of possessions is low-hum anxiety— anxiety over losing it all. We are good at living in denial, some of us more than others. Everyday we are one day closer to death yet we quite easily put it out of our thoughts. But it’s always there, that constant hum. You know it, I know it, we all know it. What is here today can be and will be taken away— one day.
Real wealth is being able to accept the universal law of change. Accepting that change is an inevitable part of Life is not to say one must be or pretend to be happily unaffected by change. Insofar as you are uncomfortable with change, allowing yourself to be uncomfortable instead of trying to escape the discomfort has a magical way of loosening the knot.
Wealth is also having your health, which is why today was a devastating day for many people. Regrettably the Senate passed a Motion to Proceed on repealing the Affordable Care Act.
I feel for the most vulnerable (elderly, poor, those with preexisting conditions and those in need of long-term health care) people who currently depend on the ACA to live; I can only imagine how devastated they and their families must feel right now. To worry and wonder whether you will continue to receive the care you need is the last thing you should have to think about as you work to get well.
But don’t let this dissuade you. There is still hope and ways to participate.
Contact your State Representatives and your State Senators, tell them your story.  Public pressure works.
Get organized, take action here.
Keep fighting— it isn’t over yet. United we stand!

A Chastity Device For Xy Discipline?

July 19th, 2017

I will avow I’m intrigued by the industry male chastity has become. There are many product choices and their quality ranges from functional to artful. The term “keyholder” is popular, even among the dabblers, too. How nice! That male seed retention has increased in popularity—even if a “diversionary fetish”—puts a smile on My face. An industry can only be as successful as the demand for it, and it’s very telling considering how popular these items have become.
As I’ve expressed in previous threads, though I highly promote and enforce seed retention and the male discipline that inevitably goes along with it, I’m more of a shock device kinda gal, and for that reason I have made makeshift zappers from canine shock collars. You can now find customized shock products specifically for male discipline through the use of a bracelet remote with options.
Unfortunately, males don’t come out of the box already trained to do dishes, clean toilets, scrub floors, do laundry, vacuum and generally work their asses off for you with passion, and even the most well intentioned men often need a little incentive to have the pep we Women are really looking for. What I’ve always liked about shock systems is their “in the moment effectiveness”—not just in delivering tremendous pain to the most sensitive area, but in terms of the worry of it being delivered.
That sort of low-involvement behavioral control for Me is ideal, though I won’t deny that there are plenty of opportunities for crops and whips, too—when I’m in the mood or need to make something doubly clear (not to be confused with when I just whip My man for fun).
Now as far as chastity devices go, I tend to operate a little differently with most, not all, of My slaves. While many of these types of products are understandably intriguing for the kinky male’s imagination (one of My longest standing slave), in every day capacity, I personally don’t find much use for metal and plastic cock blockers nor do I see them as ultimately effective as they can be painful. In a nutshell (pun intentional) I prefer a male to have the self-control and devotion to not spill his stuff when a breeze so much as grazes his genitals.
Part of My doctrine involves fostering internal self-discipline as a form of worship to Me. That and something called trust. I even encourage frequent and prolonged erections during meditative worship on My image or body in the flesh—so long as only preejaculate is produced in small amounts. If you are devoted enough to serving Me, you will take to heart how important it is that you keep your sexual energies constantly revved. I like My men passionately erect—literally and figuratively; they are so much more loving and obsequious when they are—as any dominant Woman with some experience under Her belt will tell you.
One small note to My fellow Sisters: male chastity devices are useful for men from time to time to avoid the unfortunate spillage that can occur through wet dreams, if such things become a potential problem. My longest standing slave, the horn-dog that he is, fits this perfectly. LOL
The trial and error that occurs through psychological chastity training is definitely well worth the effort; you will see your male take on a new energy with his libido bolted firmly in place (figuratively speaking, that is)!

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Are You Present?

July 19th, 2017

Here and Now – the only reality there is.  Think too much and you’ll miss it