Submissive-Male Journal Entries: Thoughts on Female-Led Relationships

April 29th, 2017
New Private Blog endeavor.  Current and upcoming journal entries will offer an in-depth look into the mind of a submissive male (Slave R).  Holding a PhD in medicine he offers a unique, male POV into Female-Led relationships for those may find themselves interested in choice-based slavery within a FLR home.   His journal entries on submission and Female Supremacy are original; i.e., no hijacking and regurgitating writings off the internet (a common practice by some ).  For a refreshing, well-articulated  look into the mind of a submissive male, come take a look.

New Photos and Writing Update entitled “Slave R’s Journal: Thoughts on Discipline within a Female-led Relationship Home” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 24th, 2017

New Photos and Writings Update.


“The common mistake of the religious celibate has been to suppose that the highest spiritual life absolutely demands the renunciation of sexuality, as if the knowledge of God were an alternative to the knowledge of woman, or to any other form of experience.”
Alan W. Watts, Nature, Man and Woman

New Photos Update Entitled: Pretty Manicure and Pedicure, and Writing entitled “Slave R's Journal: Thoughts on Female Dominance and Female-led Relationships” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 18th, 2017

Two New Photos update.

New Photo and Writing entitled “Prolonged Chastity”, and a new email from a prospective slave are now available within the Private Journal of the Member Area.

April 16th, 2017

New Photo and Writing Updates.

New Photos Update entitled "The Beauty in Slave Reverence" and a new Writing entitled “Slave R’s Journal: Thoughts on Slavery within a Female-led Relationship Home” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 12th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Update.


New Photos and Writing Update entitled "Paddled Husband: Proper Form" and "Sexy Mistress Before Shower" are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 9th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Update.

New Photos Update entitled “Mistress and Pet” and A Slave Essay are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 6th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Updates.

Bald Mistress

April 6th, 2017

To make the upcoming tennis match more fun, we decided to have the males shave their heads to match My tennis partner.  She’s a shaved-head Domina—therefore, the males will be too.  Video will come soon!

"Anglish – What if English Were 100% Germanic?"

April 4th, 2017

Amazing! What synchronized swimmers look like upside down.

April 4th, 2017


Amazing!  What synchronized swimmers look like upside down. Check it out here!

Entertaining Tennis Match

April 4th, 2017

Myself, and a good friend and popular Domina, will be having a tennis match against two cross-dressing, wig-wearing Female-wannabee males.  We are going to film the event.  Catch is: they will be wearing high heels, wigs, etc. — the whole nine yards.  Look out for the video!

New Photos entitled “Service in Paris” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 3rd, 2017

New Photos update in Journal.

Capacity for Compassion Fades in the Face of Genocide

April 2nd, 2017

“If I look at the mass I will never act.”

A resolution on the 1915 Armenian Genocide was recently introduced in Congress by Representatives Dave Trott, and Adam Schiff.  It’s legislation to officially recognize genocide.  It got me thinking about why many of us go numb and fail to take action in the face of large scale massacres and abuses.
Do you recall the horrifying image of a child refugee who drowned while trying to escape his war-torn country?  The image brought the world to tears.  Yet, just twenty-four hours later, similar refugee images had circulated the internet but failed to elicit equal outrage.  The difference was in the number of victims.  Why did the image of one victim engender more sympathy than images depicting the same tragedy with more victims?
The same psychological tendency happened with the story of Cecil the Lion.  The public was outraged by the death of Cecil, the lion killed for sport by a dentist.  Meanwhile, hundreds of animals— on a much larger scale, are killed for sport yearly, and most fail to engender the same level of visceral outcry.
The quote by Joseph Stalin: “One death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic.” is the perfect apropos for this psychological phenomena called compassion fade.
Why is this?  Why does our sympathy decline, and our capacity for compassion and our desire to help fade when the number of victims rise? Why does one death or one example of abuse leave us more upset than genocide and other urgent, global issues such as climate change?
The answers lie in the numbers; in something termed “arithmetic of compassion” by Zbigniew Herbert.
A study on “compassion fade”, conducted by Paul Slovic, showed that our compassion for victims decline as the number of victims rise. The emotion areas of our brains will deactivate, or go “numb” in response to higher number of victims or larger scale problems.
The study found 3 psychological mechanisms behind arithmetic of compassion:
1. Psych numbing:  our sympathy for victims fades if the number of victims is higher than one: compassion fade.
2.  Prominence effect:  placing more value on issues in the near-term, e.g., current affairs, and less value on issues that seem too remote and abstract, e.g., climate change.
3.  Pseudo-inefficacy:  we lose our desire to help even just one victim when we’re consumed by how many others we can’t help.  Helping one seems futile and less desirable when there are many more we can’t help.
Amazing there’s a science behind why our capacity for compassion fades the greater the number of victims.
For more reading on this interesting phenomena check out this study.

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”

Letter from Prospective Slave

April 2nd, 2017

From time to time, I share with you certain letters we receive.  Here’s one.  I’ll be elaborating more inside the private journal as I have an upcoming “slave interview” with him.  I will film this interview as I have the others.  Look out for the video coming soon.

Dear SaharahEve,

My experience meeting you:

I will say that I have been following Saharah Eve for a number of years as an acolyte. I recently made contact with her on Night Flirt to see about meeting her as part of my path to slavery to her (to see if this was even obtainable).

I sent a letter of introduction (an essay of sorts) that spoke to my idea of how i viewed submission and desire to follow that into the ultimate paradise….slavery. After talking with Saharah Eve on the phone (emails, sending photos and essay) We/we agreed to meet for a dinner and light drinks.

The moment i saw her walk up and greet me with a hug was unbelievable…we seemed to start talking almost immediately…she asked about my background and some on how i veiwed myself…..I have a PhD and am a geek at heart.

Her personality, Her demeanor, Her beauty, all combined with her confidence.. that unspoken “knowing” of Her Superiority..and an immediate consensual sense of my place ….beneath Her.

She was soft spoken, very engaging, enthusiastic about learning new things, optimistic, and most of all her contentment, with Her position of power…ruling over those beneath Her….males….as it should be.

I am not sure that i have ever met someone that conveyed without saying a word such power in such a wonderful person ever before.

After hearing her speak for a few minutes i realized that i was in the presence of greatness.

Her attitude and the confidence of her personality confirmed my desire to meet and work my way to becoming her slave. The way She is makes you want to serve Her, obey Her, make her smile, She does this all with just Her Persona – Presence.