PIN: I’m Only Here and No Where Else

Friday while driving we drove passed a post office I noticed the flag hanging at half-mast, as well as some houses. It is to represent a symbol of national mourning, ordered to honor the passing of Pope Francis. But for me—and many others—engendered a totally different feeling. And it was not reverence. Not loss. But…

I had a members-only site for a while. What began as a means to pay tuition quietly became something much more fascinating: a study in longing, in roles, in reverence. Behind each and every login was a real person—often polite, thoughtful, interested, and aching to be understood. And the same for that telephone advice line…

Some people take a compliment like it’s no big deal- a sweet little moment, then on with whatever else is going on. For some especially outside the USA, in particular France or Egypt ever when it’s a woman to woman (though stranger) compliement. They tend to look at it like a package with no return…

Note: This entry is for vanilla guys who aren’t in consensual, submissive relationships with a chosen Mistress, though devotee’s should read this too and apply it outside the perimeters of their M/s relationships. I’ve been thinking a lot about younger guys lately, twenties mainly. They seem lost, anxious, and looking for guidance and who isn’t…