I had a members-only site for a while. What began as a means to pay tuition quietly became something much more fascinating: a study in longing, in roles, in reverence. Behind each and every login was a real person—often polite, thoughtful, interested, and aching to be understood. And the same for that telephone advice line…
Note: This entry is for vanilla guys who aren’t in consensual, submissive relationships with a chosen Mistress, though devotee’s should read this too and apply it outside the perimeters of their M/s relationships. I’ve been thinking a lot about younger guys lately, twenties mainly. They seem lost, anxious, and looking for guidance and who isn’t…
There’s a common misconception floating all around that says: Christian nationalism only threatens trans people, drag performers, and the LGBTQ+ community. But if you’re someone who enjoys any kind of adult-oriented fantasy, alternative identity play, or erotic expression outside of a rigid conservative mold—listen really closely: you are not exempt. I know a lot of…
The Hypocrisy on Trans People and Child Protection A person close to me who’s from the modern Right [“group”] presents themself as the guardian of morality, family values, and—above all—child protection. They claim to be deeply concerned about the supposed dangers of LGBTQ+ rights, gender-affirming care, and drag performances. They insist that their crusade against…
There are people in this world—beautiful people—who move quietly, without fanfare. They don’t clamor to be noticed. They don’t dress to be praised or speak to be admired. But something in their presence glows. A softness. A sweetness. A lil tint of warmth that most pass by without ever naming. I’ve never seen the point…
I came across this line in The Happiest Man on Earth, written by a man who had every reason to hate the world. Eddie Jaku survived the Holocaust—survived the unimaginable—and somehow still emerged with his heart intact. Not untouched. Not unscarred. But intact. He wrote: “If you lose your morals, you lose yourself.” I haven’t…
I’ve had this T-shirt slogan for years. It’s simple—just a few words—but it holds the weight of entire histories. I don’t wear it to be edgy or provocative. I put it there because I believe it’s the most dangerous slope a society can slip down: the moment we start to see other people as less…
How Amazon Crushes Small Businesses and Retailers Amazon started by undercutting prices to dominate retail, but now that it’s effectively a monopoly, it’s raising prices and squeezing competitors—hurting mom-and-pop stores, independent sellers, and even major retailers. Here’s how: 1. Amazon Undercuts, Then Raises Prices Once Competitors Are Dead • Amazon sells products at a loss or…
Sometimes I wonder whether there’s some version of me in another universe who remembered to water the plant on time (the easy ones: pathos, spiders, etc). A version who bought the ceramic pot instead of the plastic one. A version who repotted it not for necessity, but for love. I like to imagine she has…
Have you ever felt like you were looking into someone’s soul during a conversation, while other times, eye contact felt more neutral or distant? After years of personal observation, I’ve noticed a fascinating hidden pattern in human eye contact that seems to affect the depth of connection between two people. The Key Discovery: Crossed vs….