The Random Sissy

November 22nd, 2016

New pictures and blog entry regarding the random sissy who visited My home.  I have another open, sissy maid position for this upcoming weekend: couple hours of window cleaning and shoe/boot shinning, along with serving tea and cocktails for one hour.  If you would like to be considered, call Me on Niteflirt to discuss same.  It’s a small party of 4 Women.  No camera, no filming—unless *YOU* want to be filmed for your OWN masturbatory obsession, LOL!

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Sissy Maid Posting

November 11th, 2016

Thank you all for the unbelievable amount of responses to the sissy maid posting.  A maid from Queens called right away and got the job in just two days!  It seems many of you like the idea of cleaning and going without the commitment of full-time slavery.  lol.  I will write about the experience in the private Journal.   To those that have called Me on Niteflirt to volunteer their services, you should live in the general area: a hour or two from New York.  It’s simply not feasible to travel  such a long distance for only a two-hour job.  Have a great weekend!

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New Photos: Rocks (Foot Photos)

November 9th, 2016

New Foot Photos added to the Private blog.  More coming today.  I hope you foot lovers enjoy them.  As usual, untouched and undoctored!  Holidays are coming up soon.  I advise Women who love foot massages like Me to buy your slaves a hand guitar exerciser to make his fingers and palms stronger.  The  longer the foot massages, the better.  Until he falls asleep!  But not before YOU— or else!

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Different Shades of Sissy Maids

November 4th, 2016

New Photo and Writing entitled: “Different Shades of Sissy Maids” are available in Member Area.

If there are sissy-maids in the NYC/NJ area seeking a house-cleaning job, call Me on Niteflirt.com.  Writing won’t guarantee I will see it.

Have a naughty weekend!

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Foreign Hopeful Introductory Essay

October 29th, 2016

We have posted a letter from a foreign-slave hopeful.  He’s from a patriarchal country and he’s English is broken.  I decided to have his introductory essay posted to show the cultural realities of foreign slaves and the internal conflicts resulting from Female domination interests.

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Dear Foreign Members

October 25th, 2016
Because English isn’t your native tongue, a few of you have asked that we put the latest hypnosis audio into a text format.  The hypnosis contains a voice-over of a letter I had written to My long-distance slave, which was transformed into a hypnosis Audio clip.  We were happy to do this and have transcribed the letter into a JPEG.  Enjoy!

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[Snippet]  Dear Slave, You are trapped, imprisoned by My decree over you. You never thought you could find yourself so strictly controlled. You need to feel domesticated. With just a few words, I simply subject you to My iron control. My power is such that it takes nothing more and you are held imprisoned.   And when I decree it, it makes you feel so happy, so grateful that I would deign to impose My will upon you in this way, to submit you to My rule. And as times goes by, you realize now how oppressive it is, and how you adore Me for imposing My law upon you, how you adore Me for domesticating you in this way. It is so paradoxical….[Snippet End/] 
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50 Shades of Darker

October 21st, 2016

50 Shades of Grey makes BDSM look a bit dysfunctional (it can certainly be depending on the individuals); however, the silver lining is it challenges the mainstream to think outside the box about sex!

It’s nice to see the DSM Diagnostic Criteria for BDSM revise its codes to announce BDSM is no longer a mental illness!

Tie him up, Ladies!

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Halloween 2016 – Amazonian Warrior

October 21st, 2016

What Woman doesn’t want to capture a male and make him Her’s!  Can you guess what I’m going to be for Halloween this year? :]halloween_amazonHave a Happy Halloween, everyone!

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New video – hypnosis

October 7th, 2016

My design guy is working on a video update.  I made a hypnosis video of a letter I sent My long-distance slave.  I recited My letter to him in a hypnotic format.  I don’t have a lot of “long-distant” slaves because what is the sense. I do make exceptions, at times.  It’ll be finished shortly.

Have a good weekend, and happy Autumn. :-}

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Low Back Pain? Deep Inside?

October 7th, 2016

So My girlfriend from Florida is a fetish clothing model.  She stands to the side, putting all her weight on one hip, while taking photos – as most models do.  Thing is, she also stands this way.  After so many years, she started to develop low back pain.  Ladies can get this from pregnancy too I hear.  Anyway, if you’re a Woman or a man and you can’t seem to pin-point the area of your low back pain you may want to read up on SI Joint Dysfunction.  Youtube members have put up videos describing this issue and how to do exercises to 1.  alleviate the pain, and 2.  readjust the out-of-place hip.  Aren’t youtubers so generous and sweet to help people!!

 

Here are some good ones, among many:

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New Update: Kneeling in Silence

October 3rd, 2016

New update:  “Kneeling in Silence” Photos and Writing can be found in the Private Journal section of the Member area.

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Spankin’ Good Idea

September 28th, 2016
Couldn’t resist!spank-spank
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Input

September 28th, 2016

To the cross-dressers and/or sissies who have written to us over the past month— thanks for sharing with Me your stories and perspectives on the blog entry Through Knowledge Comes Compassion.  Your information will be vital to those who will be reading the book.  Because I’ve received so many emails, I’ve decided to dedicate one of My phone lines to this issue.

Ps. And to the naughty sissies who left “very” detailed emails regarding your “sissy escapades”: I now have a myriad of ideas to choose from thanks to you, lol!

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The Knotted Mind of An Intolerant Cynic

September 23rd, 2016

“It is clear that the Individual who persecutes a man, his brother, because he is Not of the same Opinion, is a Monster.”

― Voltaire

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Female Dominance: Katharine Hepburn as a Warrior Princess!

September 23rd, 2016
How sexy is this?  Ms. Katharine Hepburn in the controversial Broadway play:  The Warrior’s Husband.  My girlfriend who has a fetish for men in kilt skirts sent this to Me.  Love it!!
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Photograph credit:  https://www.pinterest.com/silviatrallerom/katherine-hepburn/
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September: Prostate Awareness Month

September 21st, 2016

Learn about Prostate Cancer.

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FemDom in Mainstream!

September 21st, 2016

So nice to see FemDom in mainstream commercials!  This Lady knows how to use that whip!

Dominatrix | Wonderful Pistachios

Compliments of the lovely: Isabella Sinclaire.
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Through Knowledge Comes Compassion

September 19th, 2016
Men identifying as “sissies” (cross-dressers) in the Fem-Dom world find fun and sexual gratification in role playing the Female stereotypes.  That said, it’s not always fun and games for every cross-dresser. For some males, cross-dressing is more than a kinky pastime; role-playing Female stereotypes is how they self-identify. Unfortunately, for these individuals, locked within is often a world of quiet suffering. They are especially vulnerable to loneliness and interpersonal difficulties from being stigmatized to feeling isolated and helpless. Below you will find an example of a self-identified, college-20-something year old “sissy”.  I met him recently after learning about his frustrations in finding a girlfriend, being accepted, etc. He was kind enough to engage Me in his personal struggles. Below are excerpts of our email exchanges (Mine omitted).
Begin email exchange:
[Date]  Thank you for the concern Miss. It is hard but I am managing. The hardest part is hiding who I truly am from my friend’s and family. But soon I plan to move far away. I just have to finish my year with the army and, find someone somewhere that needs a roommate.
[Date]  Thank you Miss a lot of that I already knew. But most women into Femdom think it is about taking others money. I hate that. I don’t think that is love and I don’t want any part of it.
[Date]  Thank you Miss but I was talking about FinancialDom, it makes me so mad. But I hate how people confuse FinancialDom with Femdom, that is what makes me mad. Just because I am a submissive feminine boy. They think I have an interest in throwing money at cute girls with no intention of a loving relationship, it pisses me off so much. Those kinds of people make Femdom look bad.
[Date]  I am a 21 y/o very feminine and submissive boy (not a man). I am looking for a dominant girlfriend that is interested in feminizing a submissive boy (being me). I need also need a place to be myself. My family doesn’t understand who I truly wanna be. I’m also interested in playing video games and finding cute things on the Internet. I also wanna be treated like a little girl, princess, doll, etc.  Sorry that all I got.  I am not very good at this.
As a sissy I have a constant need to feel cute and to pleasure someone to feel needed. But the thing about searching for a girlfriend, as a sissy is if you are shy about being a sissy you can’t just find a girl in public, most girls are grossed out about things like this and don’t understand why we do these things. So basically you have to use the Internet and end up talking to random women. In fact you don’t even know if they are a woman. Especially if they don’t wanna prove it. I have run into so many people that have played around with my feelimgs. I am tired of this, most of the time I am on the brick of crying. Thank you for taking a concern in my life Miss.  I think i first became a sissy when my big sister asked if I wanted to play dress up. She dressed me and my twin brother in her clothes. Ever since I can’t but want to wear cute things and want to be dressed up like a doll. Basically I want my partner to do whatever she wants to me as long as I am into what she is into.
[Date]  Oh yeah I only like women telling me what to do too.  I also very needy. I want my partner to at least check in once a day during the long distance relationship unless you can find someone in [Location Omitted].  But also note I want to be able to move in about a year or 2.
I haven’t done anything outside my home regarding being a sissy. But all my life I have tried to be normal. But I can’t do it.I wanna feel different and I like being a sissy. But as far as I am concerned my family doesn’t understand this side. But it is also hard to just trust someone over the Internet. As I previously stated I am lied to too many times. I have had many break downs telling myself i was going to stop being a sissy and looking for a Domme. But a few hours later I am back at it.
Always looking at girls wishing I was them. Searching for girl clothes thinking about buying them. But not knowing if I can hide them from my family. Also on top of that I have trouble maintaining hygiene. Because I would rather use feminine products. Also I  can’t maintain my body hair and mostly I am going bald. I don’t feel comfortable being a boy at all.
I am interested in trying to be a full-time sissy. Would to like having a girlfriend that loves to parade me around showing me off even though I hate it. But I secretly like it and she does it because she knows it and wants to show my that I can’t be a woman. But if being a full-time sissy doesn’t make me stop hating my dick. I actually will not touch myself even masturbate because I think touching my dick is gross.
But if I feel like it is necessary to get a sex change. Or my partner thinks I need it, I will definitely get a sex change. But I think I am bi. But i lean towards women. Also i get horny off of thinking about a woman telling me to have sex with a guy.  I am also a virgin never experienced an actually relationship and I like trying new things.
Ever since I was _ i wanted to dress up in girl clothes. It first started because big sister wanted to play dress up. She dressed me and my twin brother in her clothes. When my parents found out they made her stop. But I continued by stealing panties from family members. Also I began researching about wearing girl clothes on the Internet. Around _ y/o I think I decided I was a sissy. My parents also found my panty stash and made me throw them in the trash. Then they began to yell at me like i did something wrong. After that I begin to try to keep my secret even more of a secret. A few times I have even been depressed and ended up thinking about being normal again. But I always ended up thinking about wearing panties.
As time went by i read stories and looked at pictures about sissies. Through all of that I tried to masturbate but I ended figuring out it wasn’t for me. But I do like anal pleasure it is the only way pleasure myself. Always thinking sissies were for men’s pleasure. Then I found out about Dommes and I fell in love. I started searching for a dominant girlfriend. I also became a furry because I love bats so my first fursona was a bat. Then I realized that not many people like bats so then my fursona become a puppy after a couple of years. I tried Facebook first but all ran into is people faking to be someone they are not. Then I moved on to IMVU I found a very nice woman. But she never wanted to do a video chat. She left me, I don’t know why but I think it was my fault. Probably because I constantly asked to do a video chat. But only because I have ran into so many people that were faking to be someone else. I only asked for one video.
I’m so tired of the bullshit I am starting to think no one actually care about me. After that  it has just be me looking on random websites for a dominant girlfriend. I have even lowered my standards a couple of times hoping it would help me to find someone. But nothing… I don’t understand why someone as loyal and devoted to pleasuring a woman as me has such a hard time finding a woman. I guess it could be the location, I hate it here in [omitted]. I plan to move in a year but I need a Mistress/Goddess/Mommy. Someone to move to because I am very depressed where I am right now. I have even thought about suicide a few time because of my family and where I live. I can’t deal with being a normal person. I need a girlfriend to make me feel feminine, delicate, and take care of me. But I know I am not the only one looking for a girl to doll him up.
[Date]  I want to be a woman because I don’t like being a male. Especially after seeing all the things that other males have done. I know there are some good males out there. But that is another reason I want a girlfriend. I know girls are likely to do the same thing. But I think males are mostly the cause of that problem. But still also stand with the fact I wanna know what it feels like to be a female. Aside from all the bullshit women deal with I wanna be a woman. I think it all makes women look more strong and beautiful. Which is why I want a Mommy/ Mistress. Women are way better than men. But that isn’t the main reason I wanna be a woman. Is mostly because I don’t feel comfortable with a dick. Sorry if what I type is confusing.
I should also mention I want to be taught how to be a good girl. Starting as if I were toddler because I feel like I missed out on that. That probably sounds stupid but I am standing with it.
[Date]  So do you think can help me become a feminine boy? It is fine if you can’t. I have lived this long without being femme. I am just glad you call it feminine boy. I don’t like the term feminine male because I feel like I can still be categorized as a man. I know I am not a man, it hurts every time someone mentions something about manhood.
I don’t want to be considered a man.
[Date]  Well it was so long ago I am not sure what started this. I think it was because I was bullied. But I always saw everyone being nice to the pretty girls. I think it all started because I wanted to feel accepted by everyone. I didn’t wanna feel sad because someone hated me because of who I was. In fact i would fight back because I didn’t want to be like them. But it turned me into who I am today. But because of all of that I tried find many ways to be a girl. I guess a came to a realization that wasn’t possible that all I would be considered if I came out was a sissy. In fact I wish ran into a girl at college that would of tried to feminize me. I don’t think I can do it to myself because I don’t know if anyone would end up liking me in the end. Which is why I want a girlfriend to dominate me at least she will know what she is doing. But it isn’t just the bullying that after so many year of think this way. I have seemed to grow a dislike feeling toward my male parts. I can’t explain all of it and that probably sounds stupid. Sorry I have a hard time explaining things to people all the time.
I think a little bit of it is I don’t want to become like my dad, and all the other man out that can’t control their anger. That probably sounds stupid also.
[Date]  You are helping me more than I am helping you. It is easy to forget about these things when you have other things to worry about. Have you ever thought about being a therapist for people like me? But do you think we can dig deeper Miss?
[Date]  I also feel I need to mention I am just searching for the place I belong and I can be the real me.
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(If there are any Mistresses seeking a sweet, 20-something year old sissy, kindly email Me for his details.)

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As Promised- a vacation photo

September 6th, 2016

Photo taken while on vacation with a private slave.  An aberration— but I keep My promises.  Many of you wished to see some.  *smilesvaca_joe vacation w joe

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2016 Female-led Holiday Party

September 6th, 2016

blog_ kneel_dumb_dog2016 Female-Led holiday party is around the corner.  For details, kindly get in touch with Me via niteflirt, or write to My slaves if You would like to attend with Your slave.  (These parties are always private, i.e., no cameras allowed.)  Hope to see you there!

 

On another Note:  For all you kinky, light and sensual BDSM players (and the hard players who also enjoy the lighter side of BDSM play) the new sequel to 50 Shades of Grey is coming out!  50 Shades Darker!  Oooh la la!

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ISO

September 6th, 2016

Below is an email I received a while back.  He’s from Europe.  If this is you, call Me on Niteflirt—I’m seeking a new slave, or, as I prefer to call them: “horse” heidi horse blog 2016– – if you’re still unkept and can move to Northern America.  (Men: take note— this applies to you too.)

And, thank you for the compliments. *smiles

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Hello Goddess,
I want to start by thanking You for Your amazing videos, finally dreams i thought never could be reality, are reality.
Since the start of my puberty i always had thoughts, i always wanted to be a slave, toy, object, dog or anything useful for a Woman.
I just wanted to worship her.. Cleaning the house while she is relaxing, Worshipping her feet.. Being a furniture for Her.
Walking like a dog behind her..
Being used by her, and having NO RIGHTS of saying anything.
So just to anything She says, and She wants… No own rights, and nothing is Mine, even Im not Mine, im HERS.
Bowing down untill She wants to ‘use’ me. Kissing her feet while she is reading a book..
Doing things to Amuse her, doing Anything she says.. I always wanted to Serve a Woman, but Not alone.. I wanted Me and many other slaves/dogs serving her..
And we all do anything She says..
Worshipping her, Our god.. Please her..
These were thoughts i always had..
Then i started to search on Internet if i might could find anything.. I found many videos, mistresses, dominatrixes and ‘ goddesses’
But they all weren’t Like Ms Saharah Eve.. They were doing it because of the money, so actually you PAY them to DO what YOU want..
Thats not a real slavery.. Because “The Mistress’ Is doing what you Pay her for.. So actually You are telling whats happening..
Thats nothing at all what i wanted..
I then started searching and searching more in the hope i could find someone..
Then that day, 1 year ago i found the Website http://www.saharaheve.com..
I saw the pictures and i thought WOOW, is this true?
I didn’t think a moment and i joined it.
WOOW, it was so amazing.. It was like a dream came true..
This is what is always wanted.. To serve a TRUE Goddess.. But not Only that… Ms Saharah eve is for me The most beautiful Woman ever..
Everything perfect.. Everything.. Her Perfect feet.. Perfect voice..
And then the way She walks want me automatically follow her like a dog.. walking behind Her. I wanted to be a human furniture for her..
Worship her feet in Public.. Carrying all her stuff when she goes to the beach..
And worship her with those other ‘slaves’..
Worship her, and being used by her.. Thats all i want..
She is just perfect… And We all should Serve Her, but We aren’t all worth it..
I hope i can become your slave..
Thank you for everything Goddess, and i hope im Worth it to ever serve you..
I will do anything to Worship you.
Male from Europe,
[NAME WITHHELD]
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FemDom Ball Busters!

September 1st, 2016

Before stepping into the shower, I decided I’d have some amusement at my towel boy’s expense. “Amusement” is a bit of a one-way door in My world, often meaning a physical ordeal of some shape or form on the male’s part, and at the time, I felt like busting his balls with My feet. Balls—those dumb, delicate and vulnerable orbs in a fleshy sack—tend to garner my wrath more often than not. I suppose being cruel to them is a personal fetish of Mine! There really never has to be a rhyme or reason for dishing out that sort of comeuppance for being male in my realm; it’s a foregone conclusion. And of course I made him grovel afterward. It’s good, being Queen. 🙂

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Terminology in FemDom

September 1st, 2016

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FemDom Fantasy – Nanshakh, FemDom Artist

August 15th, 2016

For many Female Domination is only a spicy, literary fantasy, a fetishistic pastime, a game.  For others, it is as real and serious as life can get because it is their life.  But literary or artistic fantasy can be an effective tool to depict something very real just as humor can be a subtle way of addressing deep questions.  This is precisely the motivation behind Nanshakh’s choice when setting his Female Supremacist saga in a diesel-punk style sci-fi universe, a story purporting an ancient civilization of wise and powerful Women spreading their empire over the Galaxy, unstoppable in their quest to subjugate entire planetary systems one after another to eventually eradicate all remnants of patriarchal barbary.  Here the narrative does not pretend at any form of realism.  On the contrary, it is decidedly entrenched in a fantasy where alien worlds are copycats of our own, where aliens are disarmingly human and even speak English to conveniently dispense with translations.  The deliberate choice to firmly entrench the narrative in an imaginary universe that is about as improbable and caricaturist as the technicolor sci-fi movies of the 1950s is not to relegate Female Supremacy to fantasy, but on the contrary to reflect freely on the hypothetical aspects of a multi millenary civilization of ruthless amazons.  It would be pointless to attempt at a serious utopia of a Women-led empire when we are still loitering in a mostly patriarchal culture on our little planet.  Instead, let’s choose fantasy and even at times humor to let our imagination wander freely on the mundane and anecdotal aspects of a world that would have always been radically and even ferociously Matriarchal.

 

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Judge Tenderly

August 7th, 2016

“Judge tenderly, if you must. There is usually a side you have not heard, a story you know nothing about, and a battle waged that you are not having to fight.”
By: Traci Lea LaRussa

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“One downside to a society with a meritocratic gloss is that it encourages the winners to think that life is fairer than it is, to overlook the merit in those left behind.  That’s something to talk about at the next family dinner.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/03/08/books/review/our-kids-by-robert-d-putnam.html
  • Poor, low-wage workers want to get off welfare; however, low-wage jobs are typically not flexible and have sporadic and arbitrary scheduling which prohibits time to search for better jobs or attend trade school and other scheduled attendance classes.
  • Poor children want to get ahead but inequality makes it harder:  they do not have the means to attend enriching summer activities and after school extracurricular activities which require money and transportation, and college costs rule out options of attending college: financial aid packages may not be enough to cover tuition and loans would burden them for decades as student loan debts surge past credit card debt.
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Friends

August 2nd, 2016
Some has asked whether I was a Fem-dom author who publishes erotica books.  The answer is “No”.  While there are some sexy and fun erotica books out there (many are written by men using Female pen names— I suppose because they’re more apt at speaking from the male POV), none are Mine.  In fact, I’m not affiliated with any female-supremacy/female-led relationship books, manuals, seminars, instructional materials, etc.  That said, if you’re a writer and we have spoken before, please get in touch with Me— I would love to add your name to the up and coming Friends Page!
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Empathy

August 1st, 2016

Teach Kids to see themselves in others. Show them that we are more alike than we are different.
teach kidsExpose them to the hardships of others.
Help them be mindful of their blessings.
Teach them tolerance and to see grey instead of black and white.
Model empathy.
Highlight our similarities: Need for peace, love and liberty.
Get them involved in charity work; orchestrate a neighborhood Food Drive!

 

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What Draws Men Into Submission

July 31st, 2016

Safe travels to My slave Nanshakh! 🙂

New blog writing entitled: What Draws Men Into Submission is available in the private Member Area.

[Snippet] “I would call the above “emotional servility”: to relish the very despotism that crushes one to ever more abject subservience. There is no denying it, servants need to feel the yoke on their necks. It legitimizes their existences.” [/Snippet]

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Always a Slave, Never a Pet

July 27th, 2016

There are slaves. And there are subs (pets).

The servant is not a pet and does not wish to become one.

It is the sub who is a pet.  He gains entrance in the Keeper’s realm as a pet. He wants to be dommed, but as a good doggy.  He’s always trading his submission and devotion for something in return.  He wants to gain affection, recognition, and to slowly conquer space and importance.  As a pet, he develops an affection relationship and gets ever more demanding and jealous.

That said, the servant humbly accepts to be kept low to the ground.  Instinctively, even though servitude is hard and oppressive -and it is!- he welcomes it because it keeps him at his right place.  If he were allowed to gain too much attention and care he might become a pet, and his servantry would dilute and fade imperceptibly.  He would eventually get lost in the growing schism between his servantry and the affectionate and possessive relationship that would develop with his Keeper.

That’s why I usually prefer to compare the servant to a horse and not a dog.  A horse loves his Keeper.  He loves when She murmurs words to his ear.  He loves when She pats him possessively.  He is happy and welcomes Her when She comes to use him and mount him.  But he humbly accepts to be led back to his stable.  He doesn’t want to get into the house, to leap on a sofa and make it his reserved territory and not let anyone sit on it.  He doesn’t howl and bark for hours because His Keeper has left him for the day.  He doesn’t always whine for more attention. He is not always jealous.

The horse will always be a humble servant.  The dog will always be a demanding sub, eternally trying to top from the bottom.
I don’t mean that to imply that a special attitude is expected from the Keeper.  It’s not that there is a recipe which the servant must be whipped and degraded on a set pattern.  It all subtly depends on who the Keeper is.  A Keeper can use a servant for whatever She needs him—even to have dinner, make love to him, or go to sleep in his arms when She feels like it.  It’s something in Her attitude that will always let the servant know that whatever She might be demanding of him, his place will always remain in the stable.  And, he will never hold property on the couch in the living room or on Her bed, lol.

There’s the same difference between subby players and servants as there is between Women who were born Keepers, and others who want to play at dominating, simply seeking fun in a game that could evolve into a vanilla relationship.  The born Keeper might fancy treating a servant like a lover or go out with him as She would with a friend but there will be this certain something in Her that will leave no room for ambiguity.  She will always be the Keeper and he the servant.  Whatever She does, there will be no doubt She is using Her servant because of Her own whim of the moment, knowing the servant will have to bend and adapt to it.  Conversely, the player Domme will remain in a complacent relationship based on trading, and she will be concerned with Her hubby-sub’s expectations.

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Tolerance

July 26th, 2016

Resolve to be tender with the young,

compassionate with the aged,

sympathetic with the striving, and

tolerant of the weak and the wrong.

Sometimes in life you will have been all of these.

~ Lloyd Shearer

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Mainstream Commercial: Sexy FemDom with Her Pain-Loving Husband

July 26th, 2016

Nice to see FemDom in mainstream culture!  Despotic FemDom Wife certainly has a pain-slut hubby!

 

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Happy Father’s Day

June 30th, 2016

Forgive Me for being so late; I was away— far, far away.

Happy father’s day to all the great dads, step-dads, dads-to-be, dads-wannabees, and acting dads!    Thanks for being great dads and spreading those quality genes!

 

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I saw a man holding his Daughter at an outing.  The love beaming from his eyes was too irresistible not to share on Father’s Day!

 

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No blurred lines: Paying Money to role-play as a slave versus living in a choice-based slavery M/s relationship.

June 3rd, 2016

(This writing is not intended for men content with paying money to a Professional FemDom for the chance to role play a slave.  Rather, it is for men who are looking to serve a Woman in a choice-based M/s relationship— outside a “fee or video-for service” exchange.)

 

What’s sometimes portrayed as a FemDom personal relationship is in reality a product.  Men reiterate feeling confused by what they perceived initially to be a FemDom personal relationship and what ended up being a “fee for service” dynamic.  For the men looking for something beyond commercial domination a new blog is coming soon regarding ways to tell if you’re heading into a fee-for-service relationship.

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Memorial Day

May 30th, 2016

In honor of the heros who have lost their lives in service… Thank you for the sacrifices you have made to defend freedom and democracy. 

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Happy Mother’s Day!

May 8th, 2016

A very Happy Mother’s Day to all Moms, Moms-to-be, acting Moms and Step Moms!

 

A Mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.”

By:  Tenneva Jordan

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Mathematics is the language of science.  It’s the language of all sciences actually as it meshes with other scientific disciplines and sub-disciplines. We use it to help dissect, solve and explain everything in our Universe: regularities, rhythms, patterns…  Math is the essence of everything and it shows up in nature, constellations, art, music, ripples in water, music, etc.

 The petals in daisies, for example —in all the various types, are part of math’s Fibonacci numbers! 

 (Some question whether Math is a universal truth, the foundation of everything. Did humans simply invent Math?  Or is Math a discovery? Are numbers a platonic reality whether humans are here to conceptualize them or not?  A reality totally on its own? Hmmmmmm. ;-P)

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Usefulness

April 28th, 2016

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New Slave Interview Must-Haves

April 2nd, 2016

A new blog entry (with photos) answering the question: “What is the most important interview question a Mistress can ask a new slave?” may be read in the Private Journal of the Member Area.

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Shout-Out to All the You-Tubers

January 13th, 2016

Shout out to all the youtube.com people who are so kind to upload “How To” video tutorials. Your time and generous effort is well-needed by those who would not otherwise have the money to hire a professional. Kindness goes a long way!

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The Engine Sustaining Choice-Based Slavery

January 13th, 2016

public_blog_engine_behind_choice_based… The type of “servitude” found in this situation lacks inner significance as there is no intended consciousness of union with the Woman. See the rest of this article in Member’s Area – Private Journal.

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Christmas Party 2015

December 17th, 2015

Sending out a warm thanks to all the bighearted fellas who helped Me finance tonight’s Christmas Party for the Children. It was a success: the Children loved the pizza and presents. 🙂 Below is a picture. Due to privacy regulations I can only show Myself (Mrs. Clause). Mr. Clause had an unexpected toy convention and thus was unable to attend. Maybe next year!

Happy Holidays Everyone! And, remember to give a little back, if you can…
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Christmas Present: Snow Maker (OMGoodness: it’s a selfie)

December 10th, 2015

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The best Christmas gift for your snow-cone addict loved-one, or anemic or PICA loved one for that matter. 🙂

Happy Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Holidays Everyone!

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Sexy Novel and Artwork for Fans of Fem-Dom!

December 4th, 2015

Hello Everyone,

I have two Fem-Dom referrals for all you fans. I hope you enjoy!

1) Thomas LaValle’s steamy FemDom novel!
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You can buy it here: Dancing Backward

 

 

 

2) Wonderful new artwork and trilogy updates to Nanshakh website!
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ps.  Some has asked whether I was a Fem-dom author who publishes books under a male pen-name (some men write under Female names).  The answer is No:  I’m not affiliated with any books, blogs, seminars, instructional materials, etc.

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Thanksgiving

December 1st, 2015

I was away visiting friends during the Thanksgiving holiday and unfortunately have missed the opportunity to express things I am grateful for. I am thankful for the simple things such as food, clean water and shelter. We forget that these basic essentials are absent in many people’s lives and to have them at our beck and calls is truly a blessing. With regard to Female Supremacy in a Female-led home, the easiest way to convey what I am thankful for is to simply present a picture. I thank Mother Earth for all the slaves, both past and present, who have ever served Me. 🙂2_dreamstime_m_10747601

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Veteran’s Day

November 11th, 2015

Thank you to all Military persons who have sacrificed their lives for the United States of America.   That you risk your precious lives to support those waging these heinous wars is more than any of them deserve.  They, and I thank you for your bravery and we honor each and every one of you.  To all those who are victims of war, I’m sorry; there are simply no words.  I salute you all.

In this sad world of ours sorrow comes to all and it often comes with bitter agony. Perfect relief is not possible except with time. You cannot now believe that you will ever feel better. But this is not true. You are sure to be happy again. Knowing this, truly believing it will make you less miserable now. I have had enough experience to make this statement.”
By:  Abraham Lincoln

 

Please consider helping our wounded Veterans by making a donation or monthly monetary commitment (with whatever amount you can afford) to the Wounded Warrior Project.

 
 
 
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Scientifically Assisted Parthenogenesis?

September 29th, 2015

Have scientists devised a way for Women to conceive children without any male sperm?  Interestingly, but not surprisingly, using this method to get pregnant, a Woman would only produce Daughters.  My thoughts posted inside the private Journal.

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